No one tells you that the man who makes your heart race might also be the one who leaves you emotionally starving. She loved him—deeply. But love without emotional safety is just chemistry with a ticking timer.
He had no vision. He wasn’t building anything. He loved the thrill, not the journey. And when her past trauma crept in—on those nights when she would shake, cry, or just go silent—he didn’t know what to do with her. He didn’t ask. He didn’t sit with her pain. He just... detached.
That’s when it hit her—she had married the man she loved, but not the man who loved her in the way she needed. There was no emotional security, no depth. Just moments. Fleeting ones.
So here’s the truth:
Marry a man who will sit beside you when your wounds resurface.
Marry the one who gives you his last cent, not because you asked, but because he can’t stand to see you lack.
Marry the man who sees your soul, not just your smile. The man with vision, goals, and the strength to carry both.
Marry the man who is your safe space—the first one you want to call, the one who would never let you cry alone.
Marry the man you can’t wait to come home to, not just the one who looks good on paper.
Marry a good man. Because love that is loud but shallow will never match love that is quiet but safe.
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